Resources - Books for Adults
Explore the following recommendations by members of our community. While we do not formally endorse any specific book or author, this selection offers a range of perspectives and we hope this list provides helpful starting points for learning, reflection, and support.
Books about Building Resilience
The Resilience Factor – Karen Reivich and Andrew Shatté: Practical strategies for developing resilience, based on scientific research from the fields of positive psychology and cognitive-behavioral therapy.
Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance – Angela Duckworth: How resilience, alongside passion and perseverance, plays a crucial role in achieving long-term goals.
The Power of Now – Eckhart Tolle: While focusing on mindfulness, this book discusses how living in the present moment can foster mental resilience and inner strength.
Option B: Facing Adversity, Building Resilience, and Finding Joy – Sheryl Sandberg and Adam Grant: Overcoming personal and professional challenges and building resilience in the face of adversity.
Resilient: How to Grow an Unshakable Core of Calm, Strength, and Happiness – Rick Hanson: Practical methods for cultivating inner strength and resilience through mindfulness and neuroscience-based strategies.
The Road to Resilience – The American Psychological Association: In-depth look at what resilience is and offers tips for developing mental toughness.
Man's Search for Meaning – Viktor E. Frankl: Frankl, a Holocaust survivor, reflects on his experiences and discusses how finding meaning in life, even in the face of extreme suffering, fosters resilience.
The Resilience Workbook: Essential Skills to Recover from Stress, Trauma, and Adversity – Glenn R. Schiraldi: Practical exercises to help individuals build resilience and cope with life’s challenges.
Rising Strong – Brené Brown: The power of vulnerability and how resilience is built by getting back up after failures and setbacks.
Books about Parenting Children with Mental Health Struggles
Also See Books for Children and Adolescents
Breaking Free of Child Anxiety and OCD: A Scientifically Proven Program for Parents – Eli R. Lebowitz: Based on the SPACE (Supportive Parenting for Anxious Childhood Emotions) program, this book provides scientifically backed methods for helping parents guide their children through anxiety and OCD without reinforcing anxious behaviors.
Anxious Kids, Anxious Parents – Lynn Lyons and Reid Wilson: Practical, family-centered strategies to help both children and parents manage anxiety and prevent anxious habits from taking root.
Freeing Your Child from Anxiety – Tamar Chansky: A well-regarded guide that helps parents understand anxiety in children and offers strategies to help their kids overcome fears, phobias, and worries.
Helping Your Anxious Child: A Step-by-Step Guide for Parents – Ronald M. Rapee, Ann Wignall, Susan Spence, Vanessa Cobham, and Heidi Lyneham: A clear, step-by-step approach for helping parents recognize the signs of anxiety and work with their children to reduce it.
The Whole-Brain Child - Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson: While this book addresses a broader range of childhood emotional challenges, it provides parents with a deep understanding of how the child's brain works, helping them support kids in managing anxiety and stress.
Parenting a Child Who Has Intense Emotions – Pat Harvey and Jeanine Penzo: Techniques for parents to help children who experience intense emotions such as anxiety, fear, and depression.
What to Do When You Worry Too Much: A Kid's Guide to Overcoming Anxiety – Dawn Huebner: Interactive self-help book for children, with parent guidance, helps kids develop coping strategies for managing anxiety.
The Opposite of Worry: The Playful Parenting Approach to Childhood Anxieties and Fears – Lawrence J. Cohen: A playful and creative approach for parents to help their children overcome worries and anxiety by using play as a tool for emotional regulation.
Childhood Depression: A Parent’s Guide to Helping Your Child – Gillian Butler and Freda McManus: Helps parents identify the signs of depression in children and offers practical advice on supporting them through it.
The Childhood Depression Sourcebook – Jeffrey A. Miller: A comprehensive guide for parents on childhood depression, its causes, symptoms, and treatments.
The Out-of-Sync Child – Carol Stock Kranowitz: While not exclusively about anxiety or depression, this book helps parents understand sensory processing disorder, which is often linked with anxiety and emotional regulation issues in children.
When Your Child is Depressed: Solutions for Parents – David Fassler and Lynne Dumas: A comprehensive guide that explains how to recognize the signs of depression in children and provides practical advice on seeking treatment and helping children cope.
Raising a Moody Child: How to Cope with Depression and Bipolar Disorder – Mary A. Fristad and Jill S. Goldberg Arnold: A valuable resource for parents dealing with children who experience mood swings, depression, or bipolar disorder.
Understanding Your Child's Puzzling Emotions – Sam Goldstein and Robert Brooks: A guide to understanding various emotional challenges children face, including depression, and providing tools to help support emotional well-being.
Freeing Your Child from Negative Thinking – Tamar Chansky: Although primarily focused on negative thought patterns, this book offers strategies that can help children with depression develop more positive thinking habits and shift away from self-defeating thoughts.
Parenting a Depressed Child: How to Handle the Big Issues with a Small Child – Deborah Serani: Written by a psychologist who has personally experienced depression, this book offers an empathetic perspective and provides evidence-based strategies for helping children with depression.
Books about Grief
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A Guide to Grief – Cole Imperi & Bianca Jagoe: A compassionate, practical resource for understanding and working through grief in its many forms.
After Suicide Loss: Coping With Your Grief – Bob Baugher: A sensitive and supportive guide for those navigating grief after the suicide of a loved one.
Without Her: A Chronicle of Grief and Love – Rebecca Spiegel: A moving personal memoir that explores the deep emotional landscape of love and loss.
You Will Get Through This: A Mental Health First Aid Kit – Julie Radico: A supportive toolkit offering actionable steps for coping during life’s hardest moments.
Emotional Healing: How to Put Yourself Back Together Again – Harry Barry: A science-based approach to recovering emotional balance after trauma or loss.
Notes on Grief – Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie: A powerful, lyrical reflection on grief and identity in the aftermath of personal loss.
Grief is a Sneaky Bitch – Lisa Keefauver: An honest, relatable guide to navigating the unpredictable and often messy journey of loss.
Books about Anxiety & Depression
Anxiety – Charles Elliott: A clear, straightforward explanation of anxiety and how to manage it effectively.
The Anxiety Antidote – Kamran Bedi: A guide to breaking free from anxiety using a blend of mindfulness and neurolinguistic tools.
Breathe in Calm – Domonik Wegesin: A calming, breath-centered approach to reducing stress and fostering inner peace.
Unwinding Anxiety – Judson Brewer: A science-backed guide to understanding the habits behind anxiety and how to break the cycle.
Overcoming Anxiety in Children and Teens – Jed Baker: A practical handbook for helping young people manage and move through anxiety.
More Than Stress: Understanding Anxiety Disorders – Cherry Pedrick: A deeper look at anxiety disorders and how they differ from everyday stress.
A Cure for Darkness – Alex Riley: A deeply researched exploration of the science, history, and personal stories behind depression.
Profiles in Mental Health Courage – Patrick Kennedy: Inspiring stories of individuals who have bravely confronted mental health challenges.
I'm Not Okay & That's Okay – Steff DuBois: A raw and validating reminder that it's okay to struggle—and healing takes time.
Books about Stress/Divorce
The Optimist’s Guide to Divorce – Suzanne Riss: A positive, empowering roadmap to rebuilding life after divorce.
The Rough Patch – Daphne De Marneffe: A thoughtful exploration of the challenges and growth opportunities in long-term relationships.
The Co-Parenting Handbook – Karen Bonnell: A practical, child-centered guide for navigating shared parenting after separation.
Books about Menopause
The Menopause Brain – Lisa Mosconi: A neuroscience-informed guide to understanding cognitive changes during menopause.
What in the World – Leanne Morgan: A humorous and heartfelt look at aging and womanhood from a relatable voice.
The Menopause Manifesto – Jen Gunter: A no-nonsense, empowering guide to menopause grounded in science and feminist insight.
Hot and Bothered – Jancee Dunn: A candid, often funny journey through menopause, packed with practical advice.
Books about Aging
The Power Age: A Blueprint for Maturing with Style – Kelly Doust: A stylish and empowering guide to embracing aging with confidence.
Grown Women Talk – Sharon Malone: A collection of real stories and wisdom from women navigating midlife and beyond.
Enlightened Again – Eric Larson: A thoughtful reflection on growing older with curiosity, purpose, and grace.
Books about Loneliness
Seek You: A Journey Through American Loneliness – Kristen Radtke: A poignant, visual exploration of the loneliness epidemic in modern society.
And a Dog Called Fig – Helen Humphreys: A beautifully written meditation on solitude, writing, and the deep companionship of a dog.